This book is a step by step account of how we met, married, and survived the challenges of marriage. We recognized how our upbringing and the examples of marriage that we witnessed formed unhealthy thoughts and marital behaviors. Through good solid counseling and study of the Bible, we were able to develop a healthy respect for each other that formed a system for how to “place blame” in a more positive manner. The 4-B Principle (Be Prayerful, Be Patient, Be Proactive, and Be Permanent) give detailed instruction on how to resolve conflict and create a marriage that is enjoyable, productive, and fulfilling life.